Punches and Kicks Came Down Like Rain: Toxic Masculinity and Encounters With Violence

As boys, many of us learn about fighting. We learn how to bring pain to others with our fists. If we don’t learn our lessons, if we don’t “man up”, chin up, we get hurt. Toxic masculine codes harm and hurt, and raise boys into stunted men.

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Writing about creativity, books, productivity, education, particularly mathematics, music, and whatever else “catches my mind”. ~Thinking about things~

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